Mini-Document Essay

 

Students enrolled in English 1102 classes taught by VSU Instructor Diane W. Howard during spring 2004 semester, read “Going Through the Change,” Janice Daugharty’s first collection of short stories.  After reading the collection, the students explored topics in the stories, relating them to their hometowns or communities. Simply put, the students related the ideas in a literary piece to their own lives, finding points or areas of similarity as well as areas of disagreement. Once they identified points—in agreement or in contrast—the students researched and wrote a mini-documented essay on the subject “Regional Identity.”

 

Strong Southern Women in My Life and Going Through the Change

by Erin Johnson

            In Going Through the Change, Janice Daugharty portrays many of the women as strong and prideful.  Mamie, Gransallie, and Miss Sara are excellent examples of strong southern women of the twentieth century.  They are caring, strong- willed, and proud of who they are and what they do.  A strong woman of the South should have all of these qualities.  Southern women have a distinctive way about them.  They embody the qualities of both Scarlet O’Hara and Melanie Wilkes from “Gone With the Wind.”  Southern women possess Scarlet’s passion and tenacity, and Melanie’s nurturing and caring ways.  Above all, they will do whatever it takes to make sure that everyone has what they need, be it their family or friends.  Janice Daugharty’s characters each have their own charm but are the embodiment of strong Southern women.  In my life, I have been blessed with a family that has remained close because of the strong bonds that bind us from generations of growing and learning.  Strong Southern women are what my family is made of, and they are the main reason that my family remains so close.  Many of the older women of my family, especially my Grandmother, have given me the strength to do anything.  Women in my family and in Janice Daugharty’s stories exemplify the traits of the ideal Southern woman.

            Miss Sara, the strong-minded caretaker of children in the story “Looking to Miss Sara”, reminds me so much of my own Grandmother.  My Grandmother is never satisfied until I am with her.  If I am away, even in the backyard, she cannot stand it because she cannot know that I am okay.  Everyone else believes that she will worry herself to death, and she is crazy to feel the way she does.  However, I now realize, especially by reading “Looking to Miss Sara,” that my Grandmother has every reason to worry.  She knows how the world is and she hates for her family to be out in it.  In looking to Miss Sara, Sara makes understands what the world has come to and thinks to herself, “If [Toby] doesn’t have Sara, he has no one and that’s a fact” (“Miss Sara” 109).  My Grandmother has the same idea about her family as Miss Sara has of Toby, the young boy whose family leaves him in her care for the weekend while they are working, and never even asks about him. 

            My Grandmother embodies the strong Southern woman because; she raised her four children by herself after my Grandfather left them.  Linda Hollingsworth states in her review of Going Through the Change that, the women in Daugharty’s stories are “tough souls who learn to live with the strained events and insensitive people in their lives” (Hollingsworth).  My Grandmother is a “tough soul.” Even though most women would have never forgiven a man for leaving them and their children, my Grandmother has.  She cooks for my Grandfather and talks to him, when he stays with her and my Uncle on the weekends, as if they were never divorced.  In my eyes it takes a strong women to do what she does.  Also, unlike Mommer, the lazy mother of two children in “Living Lessons” that are taken out of school for having African American blood in them, who “just sets there by the stove,” (“Lessons” 188) while her oldest child cooks, my Grandmother is far from letting anyone lift a finger in her home.  I, being “the baby,” am not allowed near the stove. She takes care of anyone who comes into her home, never sitting, and always in the kitchen making her guest everything they want and do not want.  However, she does complain, but no matter what anyone does, she will not stop working.  As Miss Sara says as she is babysitting the children, “ ‘y’all gone break me down, and then what?’ She says…but never says, And then who’ll take care of you?” (“Miss Sara” 101).  In her eyes we cannot do without her, and she is right, just as Toby cannot do without Miss Sara. 

            My Grandmother is also a very proud woman just like Gransallie from “Amazing Grace,” who takes her grandchildren to Florida to visit relatives and ends up at a stranger’s house, but refuses to admit that she is at the wrong place.  Many times my Grandmother has pretended to know someone or at least remember him or her when I am around, and I know it is to not embarrass herself.  Her pride is one thing I admire about her because, she, like Gransallie, “could never admit she was wrong”(“Grace” 52), and will never admit any of her feelings for that matter. 

My Grandmother has never in my life told me that she loves me, at least not in words.  In her actions, she has told me she loves me more than I can ever imagine.  The other day, she told me that she didn’t love me, but she was going to put her foot down when it comes to me going to Africa in the summer.  She will not let me go because there is no way for her to know that I am okay.  In this way, she reminds me of Mamie in “Dogs in a Pack.”    Mamie, the strong-willed widow and mother of three girls, who holds two would-be rapist at bay, never shows any emotion towards her children, but her actions, protecting them with all she has, tells more than words.  Like a mother hen, Mamie keeps her girls under a close watch.  She knows the men may try something later on and decides that if her daughters “don’t come soon, she’ll go after them” ( “Dogs” 2).  Though there was no need for it, she would no doubt have killed Cowboy and Minit Man, the convicts who want to rape Mamie’s girls, but are side-tracked by the torture they are put through by them, if she had no choice.  My Grandmother, without a doubt, will do anything, and has done everything, to show her family how much she cares, without having to compromise her pride in the process. 

Janice Daugharty writes about the South and the people who live here.  The women characters in the stories are the most prominent because they represent certain qualities of strong Southern women.  Everyone, no matter where he lives, has someone in his life who is represented in one of the stories.  My Grandmother is the most prominent figure in my life and I see her in any Southern writers works because, my Grandmother is part of my regional identity.  She, like Gransallie, Mamie, and Miss Sara, are strong Southern women.  They show pride, caring, nurturing, and strong-mindedness associated with the Southern woman.  Janice Daugharty paints a wonderful picture of who a Southern woman is and what she stands for.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Works Cited

Daugharty, Janice.  “Amazing Grace.”  Going Through the Change.  New York: Ontario Review Press, 1994.  52-65.

- - -.  “Dogs in a Pack.”  Going Through the Change.  New York: Ontario Review Press, 1994.  1-14.

- - -.  “Living Lessons.”  Going Through the Change.  New York: Ontario Review Press, 1994.  185-200.

- - -.  “Looking to Miss Sara.”  Going Through the Change.  New York: Ontario Review Press, 1994.  100-109.

Hollingsworth, Linda P, “Reviews.”  Rev. of Going Through the Change, by Janice Daugharty.  Studies in Short Fiction 2003: 300.